How have things changed in the last twenty years. I remember that back then cell phones were a luxury that was 5 times heavier that what they are today. No one imagined that a few years later (about five) we could set our phones to not only wake up us, but also use these incredible applications, “apps” that would help us do everything from cooking to convert pounds to kilos.
Another big surprise of our times are the famous social networks. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined how easy it would was to reconnect with my best friend from childhood, that I located by doing s simple a “search” on facebook, although she has been living in Europe for the past 10 years. That was the beginning of a very healthy addiction that was aimed at reuniting the whole “gang” from the good old days. Everyone is now a little older, and a little wiser and eternally grateful to facebook for bringing us together.
And what can I say about twitter that allows us to be “follow” those people who otherwise we would never been able to access without our modern social network tool.
But every great work or invention comes hand in hand with great responsibility and in this case is the social responsibility to make good use of it. We must not forget that social networks are not selective, which allows anyone to access them, no matter what their intentions are, and also a lot of users are young and even children who are exposed to too much information and not always have the maturity to process it properly.
Unfortunately social networks have been the scenarios to an increasing amount of cases of bullying or cyberbullying as it is known today. It is worrisome that the phenomenon had to adopt its own name. Statistics are frightening, the figures are alarming (12.1% of youths between 10 and 18 have experienced some form of cyberbullying).
The only way to turn this situation and change these figures is to talk to our kids and monitor their network activity to ensure that they are neither victims nor victimizers.
Like everything in life, advances of our time have their pros and cons and the trick is to use them wisely.



